Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Question of the Day: What's a Deal-breaker in the Bedroom?

You may or may not have seen last nights episode of Single Ladies on Vh1. Maybe you missed it because there isn't one good actor/actress anywhere near this show. But if you're anything like me, then looking at Stacey Dash every week is enough to draw you in even on a bad night.

Last night's episode posed an interesting scenario. Stacey Dash's character was making out with a guy while simultaneously talking freaky about sexual acts to be had later (after her 3 month rule was up...that's a whole 'nother conversation). As the guy (played by Darrin Dewitt Henson, who you might know from this clip) starts to talk freaky about kissing lower on Stacey Dash's body, he stops just short of reaching her woman parts.

Much to her dismay, she asked him to turn his verbal fantasy back toward her nether region, and that's when he hit her with a rude awakening: He doesn't do "that". Long story short, the make-out session got stopped and he got kicked to the curb.

All of this leads to my question: If someone you're dating says up front that they aren't willing to perform oral sex on you, is that a deal-breaker?

Bonus: What else is a deal-breaker for you in the bedroom?

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  1. You have to give in order to receive. I am too old to be kissing heavily and getting fingered. You need to be creative with getting me ready can't just jump right into it.

  2. LMAO!! I'm wit you, but from the male side tho. I'm a foreplay kinda dude, but I don't wanna be the only one playing. I hate chicks who just want you to do everything, or who wanna jump straight into it...I don't walk the streets with wood all day, arouse me yamp!

  3. One more thing...if dudes kicked out every chick they were about to smash cuz the girl wasn't giving the whop (head) it'll be a whole lot of kicked out broads in the street. Most dudes are willing to give but chicks gotta be willing to give back...yall too old to still be saying "I only do that for my man"

  4. Okay I can give you that. If a chick wants it she has to be willing to give it (hence give in order to receive) I'm digging the foreplay thing but dudes don't really know what that means or how to do it. They think that as long as soon as it gets a little wet they have done enough. #FALSE

    I am also not saying that you should give oral sex to every man/woman that you have sex with but if you expect it you damn sure better be willing to give it. I have to disagree with you though. Girls may say that they aren't giving head but that's only what they are saying. I think it is way more females willing to give (if they are getting) than dudes. We are too old for y'all to be scared to get your face wet. If that's the issue...invest in dental dam.

  5. Oh and another deal breaker is all that talking. Inside the bedroom and out. "Am I the best" "Who's is it" "Do you like this"...a few questions are okay. But I want to concentrate on cumming just as much as you do. Stop asking so many questions! Especially the ones I have to think about. And don't ask questions that might hurt your little ego if answered truthfully.

  6. Yea every girl is different. Some are too vocal, some not enough. And trust me it's plenty girls out here who are on the "i only do that to my boyfriend" talk. True, they can be convinced if you put in enough work, but I don't care that much. I'll do them like Stacey Dash and tell 'em peace ouuuuuut!

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