You may or may not have seen last nights episode of Single Ladies on Vh1. Maybe you missed it because there isn't one good actor/actress anywhere near this show. But if you're anything like me, then looking at Stacey Dash every week is enough to draw you in even on a bad night.
Last night's episode posed an interesting scenario. Stacey Dash's character was making out with a guy while simultaneously talking freaky about sexual acts to be had later (after her 3 month rule was up...that's a whole 'nother conversation). As the guy (played by Darrin Dewitt Henson, who you might know from this clip) starts to talk freaky about kissing lower on Stacey Dash's body, he stops just short of reaching her woman parts.
Much to her dismay, she asked him to turn his verbal fantasy back toward her nether region, and that's when he hit her with a rude awakening: He doesn't do "that". Long story short, the make-out session got stopped and he got kicked to the curb.
All of this leads to my question: If someone you're dating says up front that they aren't willing to perform oral sex on you, is that a deal-breaker?
Bonus: What else is a deal-breaker for you in the bedroom?